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Creating Safe Spaces for Queer Families in the Childbirth Education Community

Today, we're going to delve into a topic that holds immense importance for creating an inclusive and supportive childbirth education space—celebrating and nurturing the diversity of queer families. Whether you identify as queer yourself or are an ally eager to learn and grow, this blog post is here to provide insights into the power of inclusive language and how to be an intentional ally on this transformative journey. Let's dive in!

The Beauty of Inclusive Language

Inclusive language is like a warm, welcoming embrace for all individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. It acknowledges and affirms the diverse experiences and identities within the childbirth education space, creating an environment where everyone feels seen, heard, and respected. As pregnant individuals seeking unmedicated birth and natural birth options, you have likely noticed that there are not many childbirth and wellness organizations that value inclusivity and are intentional about building a community that embraces queer families. That’s why intentionality on this topic is so important.

Understanding Terminology and Pronouns

One of the first steps in fostering inclusivity is familiarizing ourselves with inclusive terminology and pronouns. Many queer families prefer gender-neutral terms such as "partner" or "co-parent" instead of assuming traditional gender roles. Educating ourselves about diverse family structures and using respectful language allows us to create a safe space where everyone feels valued and understood. Taking the time to ask someone's pronouns or using gender-neutral pronouns like "they/them" when uncertain can go a long way in making queer families feel seen and respected.

Listening and Learning from Queer Voices

To truly be an intentional ally, seeking out and amplifying queer voices within the childbirth education community is crucial. Embrace the opportunity to learn from the experiences of queer individuals, couples, and families. Read their stories, follow queer birth professionals on social media, and attend workshops or conferences that focus on LGBTQ+ issues in childbirth. By actively listening and engaging with diverse perspectives, we can expand our knowledge and empathy, creating a more inclusive environment for all.

Creating Inclusive Educational Material

Be intentional when sharing and creating educational resources, whether through blogs, workshops, or handouts. Make it a point to include queer-inclusive information. Incorporate examples that encompass the experiences of queer families, acknowledging the unique challenges they may face and offering supportive strategies. By doing so, you empower queer individuals to make informed decisions about their birth experiences and equip others in the childbirth education space to better support them.

Building Supportive Communities

Inclusive communities don't just happen; they are intentionally built. As individuals interested in unmedicated birth and natural birth options, you already possess the drive to be part of inclusive communities. Seek out organizations, online forums, or social media groups that prioritize diversity and embrace queer families. By actively participating and supporting these communities, you contribute to their growth and create spaces where queer families can connect, share, and find support throughout their unique pregnancy and birthing journeys.

The Power of Allyship

The role of allies is vital in creating an inclusive childbirth education space. It's essential to educate yourself continuously, challenge your own biases, and advocate for queer families. Use your privilege and voice to uplift and validate their experiences. Be open to feedback, learn from mistakes, and apologize when necessary. By demonstrating your commitment to inclusivity, you help foster a sense of safety and trust for queer families as they navigate their paths to parenthood.

As a queer birth worker, I want to ensure the LGBTQIA+ community feels supported by my content, services, and programs because I value spaces where everyone can show up as their authentic selves.

In the unmedicated and natural birth world, inclusivity and intentional allyship hold the key to building supportive communities for all families. By embracing inclusive language, educating ourselves, listening to queer voices, and actively creating safe spaces, we can celebrate the beautiful diversity of queer families.


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Meet the Author


Clara O'Rourke (she hers),
Holistic Doula & Childbirth Educator.

I am a researcher turned total birth nerd with a passion for supporting people birth in their full power! I guide people through their pregnancy, labor, and postpartum journey by helping them overcome fear or anxiety about birth, providing evidence-based information so they can make informed decisions, and ensuring they have everything they need to birth with confidence. Birth is sacred and it should be treated that way. I am committed to providing support for birth and beyond, regardless of a person's background, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, or relationship status. También ofrezco mis servicios en español. I wish you and your growing family the brightest of beginnings!

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